Selamat Datang di Taman Hatiku ^_^

Here on my blog, just try to share everything just crossed my minds, my thoughts, my feelings, my experience, and my knowledge, because I'm sure I can learn something when I'm share something. That's called "Spirit of Learning by Sharing"


"Kesulitan tidak akan begitu sulit jika kita mengatasinya sedikit demi sedikit. Selain itu semakin cepat kita menyadari hikmah yang kita peroleh dari pengalaman itu, maka semakin mudah bagi kita untuk menghadapinya"

^Diah Murwati^

Mengenai Saya

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Saya bukan siapa-siapa. Saya hanya seorang anak yang sangat mencintai kedua orangtua saya. Saya hanya seorang kakak yang sangat mencintai kedua adik-adik saya dan Saya ingin membuat mereka bangga karena memiliki saya.. itu saja. Cukuplah Al Qur'an sebagai teman, Syukur-lkhlas-sabar sebagai pengiring, dan Kematian sebagai peringatan. Semoga Allah meridhai.. "Life is not to receive, but it's about a gift" Tumbuh dan mencintalah! Semoga napas yang kumiliki bisa bernilai untuk napas-napas yang lain... ^_^ Jika ini adalah sebuah perjalanan jauh, maka akan kupacu diriku tanpa mengenal lelah, belajar mengarungi hidup seperti air yg mengalir, menciptakan atmosfer yg penuh kasih sayang sebagai tempat bersandar bagi orang yg kelelahan layaknya Fillicium, Insya Allah... I learned a lot from my family, my friends and life it self. My hope: I want to be a big people who have high integrity, eclectic and useful for wide society, or other name "khoirun nas anfa'uhum lin nas". Aamiin..

Sabtu, 27 Maret 2010

You are what you think are




Watch your thoughts, they become words..

Watch your words, they become actions..

Watch your actions, they become habits..

Watch your habits, they become your character..

Watch your character, it becomes your destiny...


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Yup, March is Self-Improvement Month.
So I’ve been pondering this question:
What is the greatest barrier to self-improvement?
I believe our greatest barrier is usually our self-talk.
We can be our own greatest enemy!
We’ve all heard the phrase, “You are what you eat.”
The same principle applies to your thoughts.
"You are what you think you are..."

Actions speak louder than words. By choosing and committing to a new habit, we will eventually change our belief about ourself as we create proof based on our actions. That belief will make it easier for our new habit to become a permanent habit. The new habit will be who you are rather than whom you aspire to be.

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To change your attitude, change your mind.

Yup, actions speak to change our attitude we must change the inner dialogue.
To change the dialogue we must catch it in action.
To do this we have to pay attention to ourself.
We must engage in self-observation and listen for that inner voice.


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"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is a habit."
-Socrates-


Here is a four-step approach. Try using it to change one habit that will support you in being who you want to be or in doing what you want to do :

1. Define a vision for what you want to create.
You are not changing a habit for the sake of change itself, but rather because doing so will get you closer to achieving or having something you desire.

2. Conduct an assessment of where you are today.
What’s working well, what needs improvement, and what’s getting in the way of your progress?

3. Construct the approach to making your vision a reality.
Think in terms of improving 1% a day…something very attainable!

4. Clarify your intentions and take action.
Form a plan for staying on track. Keep a written record of your progress.


Do the BEST and Be the BEST !!

GOOD LUCK!!! ^_^

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